Do you have a “virtual mentor?”

Do you have a “virtual mentor?”

Shama with her book

Shama holding a copy of her book

I’m not sure if there is such a definition.  When I looked the phrase up in Google, it seemed to apply to formal education and, especially, the medical field.

A virtual mentor, as I see it, is someone who you learn so much from that you feel like they are a mentor, however, you have never met them in person, only online.  They teach you through their blogs, books, webinars, and other means online.  You may have even communicated with them directly via comments, facebook, twitter or email.

In this rapidly changing society, and business world, these are the kind of relationships we need to cultivate.

I have several.

Shama Kabani

I have mentioned it before (“virtual mentor”) in the comments of an article about Shama.  I am not sure how, but I found her and started following her early in 2009 when she began to make a name for her self in social media marketing.  She forged many of the thoughts I have about that field.  I bought her e-book before it became a paperback version.  I have read many of her blog posts as well as watched some of her videos.

She is the biggest influence on me in the field of social media.

Chris Brogan

I subscribe to his emails.  I learn a lot from Chris.  Brogan has become an online phenom.  I learn a lot about writing and more about doing business virtually from Chris.  Sometimes, the shorter the post he writes, the more I learn.  Weird.

 Chris Brogan, President of New Marketing Labs and Social Media Specialist

Chris Brogan

Lewis Howes

Early in the time I followed Shama, she mentioned that I might check out Lewis.  Lewis is the ultimate sports networker.  I have been introduced to folks such as Frank Agin through Lewis.  Lewis is a leader, inspiring folks to bigger and better things.  He always ends his emails with “Stay passionate.”  I will.

Copyblogger

All of the writers at Copyblogger are mentors to me, but the voice behind the veil is Brian Clark.  Brian and his staff do a great job of educating me (and others) about copywriting online and for blogs, and especially, how to monetize your website/blog.  Now if I could follow all their advice!

Brian Gardner

I’m a website designer.  Well, sort of.  I put together websites, sometimes by bringing different parts together and creating a whole.  I am not much of a coder.  I can mess up CSS with the best of them!  Brian represents those coders who make my job easier by creating robust, feature-rich themes to use on WordPress, my platform of choice.  My flagship website, dfwfootball, uses one of Brian’s themes from StudioPress.

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Connecting Story to Your Mission

Chris Brogan has challenged his readers.  Therefore, I accept the challenge.  We are supposed to write a post about story.  Here is my post about story and from my perspective.

We all have a story.  My story, much like yours, contains comedy, romance and tragedy.  I have experienced them all in the past couple of years.

Church Building

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In fact, folks resonate with us when we share our story.  However, I want to take it to a different level.  What if we connected our story to our mission–not just as a business person or writer–but our mission in life? What if we share our story for a different purpose? What if we share our stories in a way that transcends what we do to make a living?

For me, the most powerful story is Jesus.  Now, that story is engaged in my story.  God engaging in history–my history.  I haven’t always liked my history, but I have always respected one who would throw off the cloak or royalty and become a simple peasant to  give his life for a ragamuffin like me.

Because of God’s great love, I have decided to do this.  I believe that all churches should have an online presence.  There may be a rare example of one that doesn’t need one, but most do.  I am willing to help churches have an online presence by offering my services for 50% off what I would normally charge.  Further, if a church simply can’t pay that, we can make a different arrangement.  This will undoubtedly benefit small and start-up churches, and those are who I am looking at when I offer this.  Because of my time, I can only participate in a limited number projects at a time.  It makes no difference what denomination you are as long as you believe in Jesus as your Lord and Savior.

I do not want a church to use being small or money as a reason to not have an online presence.  I will help you get a site up and running and train a volunteer and staff member to use the website.  If you desire, I will also set up a social media presence for you as well to integrate with your website.  I will then offer tech support for you and your website for six months.  All my services for a church or faith-based non profit will be 50% off plus the cost of hosting and domain registration.

Now, Chris, that is connecting my story, and God’s story, to my mission.  What do you think?